Hi!One of the most positive and liberating traits is honesty. Not only to others but also to ourselves. You recognize and appreciate some of your boyfriends' qualities but this is not enough for you to be emotionally close to him. This is not a mistake. It is your truth. If you are not sure that you are happy with him then you should probably end the relationship. It would be hard for your boyfriend but believe me, it is harder to leave him in the dark and let him believe that you have feelings for him. You may temporarily saving him from sorrow, but in reality you keep him stable and unable to find another person which is a better fit with him. Life is full of ups and downs, sometimes we hurt people sometimes we get hurt. Do not be afraid to live! Find what you mostly want in your life right now in order to be happy and go for it. As for the other guy, it would be better to talk with him and maybe get closer since you clear up the things with your boyfriend. Finally, if having no friends is the price to pay for being honest and clear, then you should be prepared for that possibility, but i believe that this situation will not last long because you are still very young and there are many fascinating experiences and people waiting for you.
One last advice. If the friends that you mentioned you lost, are those who characterized your boyfriend as "ugly", then you are more that lucky if you make a new start by meeting new people. No one has the right to judge your choices and use words that are insulting not only for you but also for someone that is important to you at a specific time. All the best!
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