Hello, raisin0513! Before I am going to you my advice, I would like to tell you something. There are lots of possible reasons as to why a person doesn't want to settle down. 1. Maybe because he still wasn't ready....physically. Perhaps he wanted to accomplish lots of things like his career or maybe he was saving for your future like your own house and emotionally...maybe he wanted to be sure that you're the one or he wanted to really enjoy his bachelor life before he will settle down... in that way, problems won't occur in the future... so the best way for you to understand him was to ask him the reason why. Ask him softly why he wasn't ready. Tell him how you feel. Remember that one of the secrets of healthy relationships is being open to each other. So don't be afraid to ask him. If he understands you, he truly loves you if he don't, give him the benefit of the doubt. Perhaps, there is a hidden story behind that. Now with regards to your plan of settling. Always remember that sometimes, there are things that don't go in your way and when it happens always remember that there are reasons behind that..reasons only God knows. Don't rush things cause the more you rush things, the more it will fail. Good luck to you!
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