I think I may understand what's happening... Your mom found out that you and your boyfriend had sex. Now she doesn't like him. And your boyfriend doesn't like her because your mom doesn't like him. But you want them to get along... Maybe what you do is first start with your mom. Talk with her about your relationship and about your bf and all the qualities that you like about him. Your mom is probably in shock that you are having sex at 14 and in a serious relationship. Not sure how close you and your mom are or how long you have been seeing your boyfriend, but a talk could definitely clear the air. Then ask your mom if you can invite your bf over for dinner or whatever so that the three of you can get to know one another. As for your bf.. Your mom most likely doesn't really hate him. Moms wants the best for their children, that includes who they date. So, he needs to put the feelings away about disliking your mom (only because she dislikes him) and come to dinner and really make a good impression. Your mom may ask some tough questions, so tell him to be prepared. It is still her responsibility to protect you. That's probably a good place to start. Once that opportunity happens it's really up to them to give it a fair chance and hopefully are open to this and will come around and your mom will see why you like each other and he will see why your mom is being protective or saying she doesn't like him before actually getting to know him. Good luck!!
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