You do know how you feel about it, you just aren't ready to give up on the relationship. In that case, given his occupation for the moment, keep your boundaries really clear. I'm not certain about laws in NJ, but in a lot of states you can be charged as an accessory if something goes down and you're around. (Example..let's say he picks you up but needs to drop "something" off and it goes horribly wrong and he jumps in to the car and you guys leave.. boom you are now involved). Hopefully, that never happens. Just be really careful and make sure he doesn't deal when you're around - in his car, in his apt, while you are out etc... He wants to do that, fine .. let him suffer the consequences..not you. Even the phone conversations.. I wouldn't want to know about them. Maybe you need to set a time frame in your head for how long you are willing to wait since he says he plans on stopping...That would say a lot about him keeping his word. But the choice needs to be his own. Just promise yourself that you know when to walk away.
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