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It is important to identify why your child is refusing. Is it because of the way you are asking? Is it because of what you are asking for? What is the reason? Once you have identified the reason why she is refusing you will be on your way to fixing this problem.
When trying to get your child to cooperate, give them space. Create an environment where they feel they get to choose what decision they will make. Give them reasons why you support what decision you want them to make. Then let them decide freely. Nothing will make someone refuse you more than trying to force them into obeying.
If this happens to be a dire situation where you must intervene to protect them, then by all means use force. My advice is to be less imposing. If your kids are allowed to think for themselves and you give them space, it will make them like you more and they will be open to listening.
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